Guidance in Caring for a Bereaved Baby

I am open to receiving comments and guidance that would be useful in the situation I am going into (i.e., the death of my sister-in-law and the caring for my 16-month old nephew).

Your recent response to the leaving of the plane you refer to as bodily manifestation is one that is heartfelt and healing.

Your way here is to allow yourself to feel your inner knowing of what the baby feels and you are asking for guidance in helping this lovely energy of light to be able to let the loss be felt and healed. Your awareness of the reality of connection between levels of manifestation will ensure that you relate to the child in ways that reach his inner being that has total contact with his beloved mother. You shall be able to encourage this connection as it is still needed by the dear mother without her body and by the realized body within the baby.

We suggest that you allow this connection to be validated and reach into your own awareness to assist the mother to love the child with total spiritual freedom. The child will feel this energy and you will facilitate this continuance of the bonding.

The mother will stay with the child for a length of time that will break away only when the child needs the bond felt less strongly.

Your work will be to observe the ways in which the child needs to feel connected and respond. Call for the mother’s energy to be present whenever you hold the child and this will assist your beloved nephew to have his deepest needs feel satisfied. Relax into the love. The love is your purpose and the healing of the sudden separation of the family resonance.

The beloved father will be led into feeling more the loved one he misses so deeply. He is unaware of her fullest presence in their midst, yet she comforts him in his broken spirit.

You can help him to reconnect with his deepest love in heart felt healing. Be open to your responses to your beloved brother. He is unaware of his denials of pain and your tuning in can help him learn to let his pain be healed, yet have the love remain. He holds the pain because he is unwilling to lose his love.

He can have the love without the pain, yet the ripping apart must be felt and kindness must be given to the torn fragments. This is needed. You are in tune in your own body. Let your tuning capacity let itself be felt and communicated.

With respect to whatever else you will encounter in this situation, you can trust your own knowing of how to heal a heart. You have been doing this for yourself and now you can share this process with another whose pain is beyond his feeling of ability to heal it. Your knowing is what is called for and that is your calling now.