Broken Promises

You recently have met with broken promises and you are registering that you are not willing to be so generous with respect to understanding excuses or whims of others that are un inclusive of how the realignment of their energies affects you. You feel used and undervalued when this occurs and you are needing to be clear with others how you feel in response to their changed direction. You are needing to be heard in your needs and in what you have given in order to have what was promised come forth.

When a commitment is made, it needs to be received by both parties as an alignment of energies that is purposeful and mutual. Any change in this alignment affects both parties, and each one needs to be honoured within the arrangement. For one to shift while the other stays inside the alignment creates an imbalance that needs to come into new balance in relationship to what is.

When you are the one still within the alignment while the other is not, there is a need to be clear about your feelings and the effect this has had upon you. The other is still held by the commitment on an energy level until you have come into shift also. You’re learning in this is to acknowledge yourself and how you are affected, to share your feelings and resentments about the misalignment, freeing yourself of incomplete energies, both inwardly and outwardly.

You are learning to speak for yourself. You have a rich time to learn this art of self remembrance. You are in a time of resolving your former pattern of giving more understanding and acceptance to others than you do to yourself. You are not so willing to brush off the missed mergings that you forgave so readily before. You have deep recognition now of what you are giving. You have greater awareness of when you feel ripped off.

You are learning to be less gullible, more discerning when it comes to people and the discrepancy between their words and their actions. This is a very deep trance experience for you because you believed words to the point that you were unable to recognize discrepancies and blatant lies.

You are able now to know action that is not congruent with the word picture. You have a deep need to grieve this deception that you live, as it caused you to enter many situations that were, in the final analysis, destructive to yourself and your family. When you went into these circumstances, you went in convinced that you would be honoured and justly perceived and dealt with. What you are learning very succinctly is to recognize when the words are buffoonery or unreal, a method of manipulation “to get” rather than “to share”. You are meeting with the opportunity to speak to a sense of non-commitment, even though the words say clearly, “commitment”. You can learn to be uncommitted.

You can claim your right to being uncertain of your own willingness to give 100% of yourself. You can claim this truth for yourself and let the others live and deal with your need to stay free of commitments to performance. The underlying lesson is the one of integrity, integrating the truth of your being so that you can know truth and live in it.

You are in this time to live in the support of your Greatest Being, which is connected fully into the universal wisdom, loving flow and living light. You can open up more to this magnificent support by clearing yourself when blockage occurs, finishing the energy, releasing it and making room for the next gift of unfoldment to be given.

The secret is completion. When commitment is in place, there is a holding to a way of growth that deepens in the particular area that is embraced and it limits the opportunities from other directions to come into your embrace. When a commitment is broken, there needs to be a completion on both sides in order for the next possibilities to be recognized. While the old energy of the commitment is not cleared, the future steps will remain unclear. Unclarity often indicates an old energy not complete and a need to complete before moving on.