Marriage: Shared Passion

Call for Shared passion, Love and Sexual Fulfilment from Marriage Partner

You condition yourself within what you desire. Your call for the other to provide you with completion within holds you in a place of helpless demand and dissatisfaction. Your purpose in this lifetime is LOVE.

Love is not what people believe it to be.

It is not emotional.

It is not physical.

It is not mental.

It is the capacity to experience wholeness.

Wholeness IS:

Your Light -

Your Life.

Light is not lacking. Your ability to have it felt and integrated within is lacking but the Light is whole, always. This is BEING and each of us IS Light Being here through human form. You are completed in Being always, no matter what you experience, what you desire or what you think.

Your capacity to look outward for completion is in truth your incapacity to feel inward.

Within wholeness is where your source abides. What is outward is impossible to connect yourself through. When we insist on an outer reality being our fulfilment, we are not present to our own energy system and Being. We are therefore always seeking the next… partner… moment… event… news… contact… with outer friendliness, flattery, possibility….

It is endless and we stay unsatisfied. Your partner is not what you want him to be and never has been. Who is he when you no longer ask him to be here for you and your completion?

You may wish to discover that. You are passionate and he is also, but not in the ways you recognize. What is Love? Your call for him to be what you define as “good” and “right” as already complete in his knowing of himself and there to bring your fantasies about love and life into realization for you – is this love?

You may not choose to stay with him as his process of knowing himself “as Love” without seeking his completion outside himself in another has hurt you and brought you awake to completing yourself in Life.

His movement outside of your marriage is not an enlightened one. It is the result of him responding to urges in himself which he followed instinctually without questioning the source of these urges in himself or the consequences.

He is in the other side of his learning now – the consequences. Will he use this suffering to “wake up” to himself in the deepest place where he IS love and need not seek it? We shall see.

Will you use your side of this experience to wake up inside you, discovering the love you have been seeking outside but that is not about outside?

When this Love is awakened, you can choose IN LOVE and serve the Love that You are rather than punishing the “Love that IS not” due to misidentification and reluctance to deepen into your own Power as Love in Life.

This work is not easy. Most are not awakened to this inner source as Being Love that I AM here. You can see this in the world. It is a mess in every way as humanity continues to seek and refuses to find.

You have come into this embodiment with a deep commitment to Love. When we demand it in others without cleaning our own light, our own hearts, we can’t feel its Presence.

No-thing is “IT”. It is not an object… It is a Beingness which is infinite, eternal and here in every breath, every heartbeat, every experience we manifest.

To not know this Presence is deep loss and grieving at the very core of us. Yet this grief drives us to seek harder, stronger, more, better… until we destroy the form that holds us away from “That which IS, within”.

You call forth your Love, yet you want the Love to take the form of your partner. He is not your Love. You in your heart, your soul, your essence in Being here, are.

LIFE…. WE CANNOT DEFINE IT…. It defines us. You have a human form and life lives this form as you. You are human, a seven-fold, multi-dimensional Being that expresses what IS beyond form in appearance. With human potential, the opportunity to KNOW that which is Source manifesting, is magnified through what we are willing to surrender into as Being beyond physical/emotional/mental workings.

To bring a mental construct of “who I AM” and “what is Life” into destruction is a way of surrendering into what is intuitively guiding through wholeness rather than instinctually guiding through separated mental driveness. Your work is to bring the demand for Love to its knees and open inwardly to receive what IS Love, here already as You.

This requires everything. You feel the threat of death. Yes, we die to an old idea, a dream, a reality we created that actually denies the very love we seek. You see this process in your garden. Do you see how dying brings new life?

Maybe you will die to your present relationship with him…. Does this mean that Love dies? What it means can only be discovered. You know that if you leave him or ask him to leave you, that you will be financially able to live. You know that people will understand that you will continue to be together through associates and family you mutually love. You are indeed needing to examine your own needs without making another responsible for their fullness when the need is not mutual.

Where is your Love?… In you my dear woman who knows yet holds onto your demand for reflection from one who has served by showing you your attachment, your fear, your outrage, your need for Love to be fulfilled.

Truth may not be what we want in our desires but our heart is set free when we hear what IS here inside..

You have time. You are in a process of self-examination, self-opening and self-awareness. You are not alone in it and you have what you need to keep growing.

Every time you see your partner is wavering, find your capacity to see him from your deepest heart. Witness his process of growth in this. Whether he likes it or not, his action provoked this upheaval and the learning is not just his, it is also yours.

Come to peace in yourself and your feelings will be different. You can truly see where your nourishment is received within you and no-thing, no-person, no-circumstance can rob you of this knowledge in Being Love.